FLR & BDSM

    Over the weekend www.flogmebaby.com  had a sale . I have been on the receiving end of a few of Steve’s torture devices. He had a few items on sale that I was interested in. Queen had broke the wooden paddle on me and though the wooden slapper above isn’t a replacement, it pleased her today.  When I got home I message that it probably not funishment night but we had some new toys.  She got home about half hour later with some things she picked up at Costco. Once she seen them laid out we forgo the formality of taking a shower. She wanted me to instantly drop my pants bend over the couch and take a few hits with each device. I will say I too loved each one. The weight of the thick leather flogger left quite the impression on my derrière. The fact that the handle can be lube after a flogging and used as a metal dildo makes it an interesting tool. Then came the short Tassle flogger that left some stinging point after the impact of the heavy flogger then came the...

HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY              Woke up as queen got ready before leaving for her morning workout. My cough was worse this morning and my energy was low. Not sure why my energy was low. Getting sick? Rough night of crazy dreams? Or was it from out extended session last night. Due to the fact I was blindfolded I am not sure how long the funishment was but I know I went to the room at 1030 and crawled into bed about 1230. Best guess is the pain session was 45 to 60 minutes. Queen mention she used 14 different torture items. I agreed cause before I am allowed to touch her I must clean /disinfect all devices. Along with the pegging. Watching my queen masturbate and allow to cum was 2 hours total.     I was so tired this AM that I slept most of the time Queen was gone. I did get up to do a few things. But took small catnaps between things.      We had a cook out scheduled with some friends up North at 2pm. BBQ chicken capri sal...

 I had been warned that something was coming this weekend. I would ask every so often to see if there was a chance I might get sneak preview. I was told to come down to the room  and put up  the doggy gate. I was blindfolded then hands secured behind my back. Wire cloths pins clamped on my balls. I find out later that 10 different funishment tools.  My tool was leaking a steady stream so she put a sock on it.  I got quite a lot of funishment even broke skin  End of the plastic cane broke a little skin.  Anyway no harm no foul. I got to watch her orgasm and allowed to have mine. 9 1/2 of 10 I  would say.

 I had a long thought session yesterday about this lifestyle we have venture into. First if you were to tell me that I would be into kinky things such as getting turned on by a crop, or paddle or my wife telling me to suck her dick as she grabs my head and shoved her strap on into my mouth. I would laugh you right out of the house. So imagine my surprise when my wife had me strung up naked in the middle of a room as she along with another woman flogged me hard and I thoroughly enjoyed it or being comfortable in bed and she walk in with her torture device for the session and I willing get into position.  Now if you know me you would know I am open minded to alternate lifestyles. I can tell you before my wife and I had a great life. Things would go well for couple months but then we would hit a period of fighting. We tried counseling but I didn’t like the path we were on. I can say that’s a sore spot with my wife. Right now all that intense fighting has been thwarted by the FLR ...

 It's the Thursday before a three day weekend. I look at the tool rack of torture. Knowing my queen was sore from her training for her big swim, I doubt anything will happen tonight. I am naked in bed playing on my iPad. In about 15 to 20 minutes in walked my Queen. She walked into the closet and we chat a little. I see her come back thru and go into room and look at the tool rack. I speak up and said "I figured you would wait till the weekend." She replied "I have something planned for the weekend. This is just a mini version of what's to come this weekend."  She with the plastic cane (pain factor  9ish) paddle (pain factor  5 to 6) and a whip with a braided ball (pain factor 8 to 9). I have a love hate relionship with that cane. At one time she Crack that can and thought she broke skin. It stung like hell but in a way I had hope it had but not really. My only explanation is I want to know what pain level was when skin was broken. I also don't want the ...

 After some searching we put ourselves out there a little in search of a Female dominant. I will be the first to say I am not sure what the Queen is after. Many time she would say how do I know what I want when I don't know what I am doing. Anyway thru website online I found a woman who would work with her.  Once they were introduced I step back and let them take over. For a while it looked good but it wasn't long before Queen's frustration set in.    In search for BDSM. Found a club in Chicago that catered to the kink world.  We looked up everything we could find on the place. After much conversation we decided to do a temporary membership. A couple weeks later we go to investigate. We get a hotel room, go to a leather shop / adult store. After eating we go to the club. We get there around 830 /900 pm. Once we do a short tour we sit and chat.  A couple guys pull out their gear and do some shirbari rope work.  With kneeling benches, St Andrew Crosses, ...

Her Daily expectations     Morning kiss when getting out of bed and agin if I am to leave for work before her. Garbage full take it out.  Come home do a quick pickup of the house  from dogs toys left out over the day. Sweep the floor quick vacuum. Help with dinner, even if it’s just standing chatting. one of my hard limits is cooking. No eating over sink.Cleanup after we are done. Putting away leftovers in fridge, loading dishwasher and wiping down stove, counter and sink Dom daily calorie intake will be 1500 Subs intake will be 2100 Sub is to lose 10 lbs by 22 of June While out get the door , take her coat etc.  Weekly expectation Tuesdays and fridays wipe down sinks and toilets with Clorox wipes. Sweeper over bathroom floor Thursday nights  have massage table set up to give full body massage /stretches to assist with training and recover 1X a week. To be treated like a Goddess… laid out on the bed kiss or touch from head to toe with ultimate orgasm made b...

 This post will be the start off point for the adventure my wife and I started our experimentation into the world of BDSM. A little about ourselves.  At this point I am a 57 y old male married to a 50 y old female. Been together for 11 years married for 7 years. Active middle class people with bills, jobs, friends and family. We are kind giving people who just want to get as much out of life as the next person. Good satisfying sex life.    We had went to a Halloween dinner in nearby Chicago. Always looking for new experience. This Halloween dinner was to be served in the dark. Yes in the dark. While eating there would a scary story played out in the room as people walked around serving food as the story went along.  It was a good experience but it was a one and done don’t have to do that again thing.  I have regular bout of where I can’t fall asleep when we get back to the hotel. As my wife was sleeping I surfed the Internet on interesting things on Chicago...